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Men and Emotional Pain: Understanding the Signs of Male Depression

Men and Emotional Pain: Understanding the Signs of Male Depression

Depression and suicide remain the leading causes of death among men. In the United States alone, more than six million men experience depression every year. It’s important to understand what male depression looks like and what treatments may help.

Board-certified psychiatric nurse practitioner Bosede Iwuamadi, DNP, PMHNP, provides psychotherapy for male and female patients experiencing depression, anxiety, and other mental health issues via telehealth at Newstone Behavioral Health in Garland, Texas.

Signs of depression

While we’ve come a long way toward transforming gender stereotypes, they still exist. In general, men still shy away from talking about their feelings and mental health issues. Many men fail to recognize their depression, and those who do, often avoid treatment. 

Symptoms of depression include:

  • Low energy
  • Deep sadness and despair
  • Loss of sex drive
  • Sleeping too much or not enough
  • Difficulty concentrating
  • Losing interest in activities you previously enjoyed
  • Withdrawal from friends and family
  • Suicidal thoughts

Dr. Iwuamadi discusses your issues to develop strategies, from psychotherapy to medication, to help you cope.

How male depression differs from female depression

Although women possess more suicidal thoughts, men are four times more likely to commit suicide.

Men often use different coping strategies than women. Boys learn to express their emotions differently from girls. As they grow older, they may hide their depression to fit the strong male stereotype. Their depression frequently manifests as:

  • Anger
  • Aggression
  • Substance abuse
  • Overworking

Women experiencing depression admit to feelings of stress, worthlessness, and overall sadness, while men downplay their feelings. Dr. Iwuamadi helps men discuss their issues instead of displaying them in unhealthy ways, such as irritability and impulsive anger.

Coping strategies

Dr. Iwuamadi offers a variety of solutions to get you on the road to better health. Simply talking to a mental health professional often helps. The doctor also suggests you:

Connect with friends and family

When you feel overwhelmed or hopeless, reach out to loved ones for encouragement.

Get healthy

Mental health directly affects your physical health. Eating more fruits, veggies, and protein instead of self-medicating with unhealthy foods, plus maintaining a good weight and exercising, helps you feel more balanced.

Go to work

Whether you work at a job or volunteer for local charities, feeling part of something bigger increases self-esteem and lessens depression.

Treatments for depression

According to the National Institute of Mental Health, if you feel depressed for more than two weeks at a time and experience difficulty sleeping, eating too much or too little, or issues of low self-worth, you may suffer from major depression.

Psychological treatments include:

  • Talk therapy to help you eliminate negative thought patterns and improve coping skills
  • Cognitive behavior therapy (CBT) to monitor and change negative patterns
  • Interpersonal therapy (IPT) to better understand how you relate to others
  • Behavioral therapy to help you learn how to change certain behaviors that may be contributing to your depression

Dr. Iwuamadi evaluates you for signs of clinical depression and may employ therapy and/or medication to help you lessen feelings of depression and/or anxiety, which often go hand-in-hand.

Let us help

Reaching out is the first step towards achieving better health. At Newstone Behavioral Health in Garland, Texas, we offer affordable, compassionate treatment via telehealth. If you or a loved one suffers from depression or other mental health issues, contact us today.